You both make strong points. In the case of an unplanned pregnancy, I think both parents share the neglect of having sex irresponsibly, assuming they both made the choice to have sex. I realize it’s the woman who bears the hardship and challenges of pregnancy and delivery, but that baby was made by both of them. I’m not ready to say the father has no rights whatsoever, especially. if he is willing to fund the medical costs and accept the responsibility of raising a child alone. I’ll have to ask the AAs their point of view.