Two consenting adults whether same or opposite sex who love each other is a far cry from rape, yet you compare the two. The first is based on love or at least attraction, and the last is based on violence. Whether you’re gay, straight, trans, whatever, whatever happens between two consenting adults is no one else’s business. If you think homosexuality is wrong, don’t get involved as part of a same sex couple, but nobody has the right to pick someone else’s partner or prevent them in any way to choose who to be with and love. Believe and act as you see fit and leave everyone else to do the same. Jesus is love, and He does not condemn love. We need more of it and less judgment of others.