I’ve kind of learned (am learning) to balance planning with flexibility. That way, it’s easier to go with the flow. I’ve also learned to be less rigid. If I planned on doing something but change my mind, I also go with the flow. For me, it was about relinquishing the need for control, which is an illusion. We’re never going to be able to control everything. Once we understand that, we can work on realizing we can get through setbacks and overcome roadblocks.