Interesting. Have you considered the possibility that you father’s purpose was to set a negative example so others could learn from it? The Angels have told me that most of the people in our lives who have had the most impact, good and bad, are part of our life plan. Within our soul pods, members sometimes agree to be the villain, so to speak, in order to help others learn as well as themselves. My understanding is that when we cross back over, some of the people who caused us harm receive our gratitude for their part in our growth. This is something I ponder often. It’s a reminder of what my Reiki teacher taught me about forgiveness. “All is as it should be,”. I find comfort in that thought. Blessings, Marcus! I so enjoy our exchanges.