If I had a dollar for every time I received similar guidance for me to consider but still left the final choice to be made by me, I’d be rich! It is frustrating sometimes, but I’ve learned that there is a good reason for this, whether I realize it at the time or not. Our Guides do what they do for us with love and much greater knowledge than we have. Sometimes I have to remind myself that there’s a sound reason for everything they do and do not do. I’m learning, as you are, but I still get frustrated at times, and I’m not known for my patience! (They remind me of that, too!.). Blessings.