I used to be young and beautiful, did the modeling, the pageantry, etc., and had a good time, have good memories. Now I’m 60 and happier than ever. I’m not young and beautiful anymore, but I am happy and fulfilled.

What I’ve learned is, you can’t change anyone but yourself, you should always be honest with yourself (I spent ten years with my first husband, lying to myself that things would be okay and work out), and always, always be true to yourself (don’t try to change for anyone but yourself, and don’t act another way to fit in).

I’m glad you got out of an unhealthy situation, and I’m sorry you struggled. Ask yourself what you learned and apply it to your store of wisdom. You’re strong, resilient, and smart; a lot more than just beautiful. Many blessings!