Hi, Susan. When my husbands health started failing due to Parkinson’s, his experience was much like your husband’s and he became bitter. He didn’t think there was anything after death. After he died, he kept turning on the bedroom light, so I’d know he was still around. It’s been ten years, and if I’ve had a rough day or I’m struggling with something, he’ll still turn it on as a reminder he’s close. I’ve also thought the same, that he was pleasantly surprised to find out he was wrong about death being the end. I’m sorry you both struggled, but I’m happy for both of our guys. Blessings.