Hi Mawde,
How wonderful you’re able to communicate with guides! Regarding your mother, the situation really hits close to home, as my mother also had dementia and got scared at times, even watching TV. She loved her westerns but became afraid the bad guys would come after her next. It’s so hard to know what to do in cases like that, and I really feel for you.
As people get closer to the end of physical life, they often report seeing relatives who have already crossed over, but it doesn’t often scare them. Since she may not remember the ones who visit her, you might consider telling her the Angels are watching over her. They actually are, whether she sees them or not, and most people aren’t afraid of Angels. The Angels I channel aren’t likely to provide me with information so personal to your mother, but if I hear anything I’ll let you know.
Meanwhile, don’t forget to take care of yourself. I know how stressful your situation can be. Remember Angels watch over you, too. If you ask them for help, they’ll hear you.
Blessings to you and your family,
Jodie