Hi Lilith. I’m no longer a Christian either for some of the reasons you described and more. I just don’t want to be around people who think their way is the only acceptable way to God. It’s not for everyone, but I channel the Archangels and share their messages on Medium. I get a lot of criticism and have been condemned to hell more times than I can count by Christians, because so much of what I share contradicts their beliefs, not to mention their Bible. Anyway, the Archangels would tell you what your husband said. God doesn’t zap us for any reason. We’re loved unconditionally and forgiven everything. Oh, and also, there is no hell! I hope you’re enjoying AC bliss. Blessings, Jodie