Hello, Pene. This may not resonate with you, and if not, that’s perfectly okay, but since you asked, I’ll share my thoughts. You see, I channel a group of Archangels who call themselves the Collective Consciousness of the Archangelic Realm (C-CAR for short). They’ve told me exactly what happens when we die. I wrote an article about it if you want the play by play titled What Happens When You Die? In a nut shell, although many people are afraid before they die or as they die, the fear passes quickly. Although there can be confusion as the soul readjusts, they are greeted by loved ones to set their minds at ease. They analyze the life they just left and note the lessons and experiences they learned and what knowledge they still need. Then, usually working in groups, they plan their next life in a way that can hopefully lead to that knowledge. The Angels tell me that it usually takes many lifetimes to learn what we need in order to understand and commune with God (who, by the way, is unconditionally loving and forgiving).
Thank you for your thoughts as well as for helping so many others. Best wishes to you.