Dan, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I went through similar circumstances with my husband. I just want to say that there are no wrong feelings in a situation like this, and there is no right or wrong way to proceed. You’ll both do your best, and you’ll get through it. Don’t forget to take care of yourself, as you take care of your wife. Lean on your faith and on others who support you, and if you need help, ask for it. Angels are with you.