A couple of things come to mind after reading your heartfelt response. I think the whole “it’s none of your business” argument is in its way out, at least I hope so. I think when people are being treated unfairly, it’s everyone’s business. We have to get away from us and them and come together as we, the human race. Having said that, I don’t think we have to be confrontational about standing up for what we believe. In fact, the Angels say that’s counterproductive for several reasons. When anger meets with more anger, it escalates, often to the point of violence, and that solves nothing. I’m sure that’s why your family is concerned. I think a better way, rather than attacking the attackers is to peacefully side with the victims, offering them your support any way you can. Rather than confronting those who cause the problem, standing by those who they have caused to suffer sends a clear message about whose side you are on and that you disagree with them. For example (and believe me, I’ve reminded myself of this many times, because it’s so tempting to put some people in their place) instead of pouring out your anger regarding the people against gun control, maybe stating how badly you feel for the victims and how you hope someone finds the courage and leadership to work towards making life safer, so no one else has to die needlessly. You’re still clearly expressing your opinion and support, but it doesn’t invite more anger or defensiveness from others.
It does no good to try to reason with unreasonable people. Not only is it a waste of time and effort, since neither side is likely to change in response to anger or criticism, but your energy lowers in vibration as your anger or fear or disgust rises, and that gives strength to the opposite side. Nothing good is likely to happen. The Angels say it’s better to find like minded people and discuss what might help the situation and go from there.
You may have seen some of the articles where I’ve written an emotional response, often due to anger at a situation. I do vent from time to time, before I can settle down. (The Angels aren’t involved in these articles, because they’re so much nicer and controlled than I am!). It’s okay and even healthy to go on a rant from time to time, as long as you don’t get stuck there. I’m forever working on responding, rather than reacting. I’m definitely better than I used to be, but I slip occasionally. Then I work on releasing the anger and doing something more effective and productive.
Hope that helps and gives you some food for thought. Thanks for the comment and your openness to share. Many blessings to you. ❤️😇
